Dear Annie: How can I be included in my son’s new family?
Advice columnist Annie Lane
Navigating Family Dynamics
Dear Green-Eyed Nana: It’s completely understandable to feel left out and jealous when you see others enjoying family gatherings while you’re excluded. FOMO, or “fear of missing out,” is real. Open communication with your son is key. Express to him how much you would like to be more involved in family activities. While it might not increase your one-on-one time, you might find yourself included in more events that involve her family.
Communicate Your Desires
Since you’ve already noted that your daughter-in-law is wonderful, she might not realize how much you’d appreciate being included. It might help to let her know that you’d love to join more family gatherings.
Offer Assistance and Support
Additionally, with the arrival of baby No. 2, there may be opportunities for you to help. Make sure to communicate your willingness to assist, emphasizing your desire to be supportive rather than focusing on feeling left out.
Please advise me on how I can approach this situation or what I might say to improve the situation.
Best of luck, and I hope things improve for you and your family.