DEAR ABBY:
Struggling to Find a Fitness-Oriented Partner
I'm a mature male who overcame health issues through dedication to fitness. After losing almost half my body weight, I now struggle to find women who share my passion for exercise. Dating sites have been disappointing, as physical attraction is crucial to me. I believe shared fitness values are vital to a successful relationship. Should I settle for companionship or hold out for someone who shares my dedication? I find it challenging to connect with compatible partners. Am I too picky, given the lack of interest in self-care by many? — DISCOURAGED IN MEMPHIS
DEAR DISCOURAGED: Physical attraction is important, but preferences vary. Your commitment to fitness is commendable, and it's essential to seek someone who shares your values. Don't lose hope. Explore online dating platforms focused on health and fitness. There are options available for individuals like you. Best of luck on your search.
DEAR ABBY:
Reluctant to Share Living Space
As a senior lady content with my life, I face a dilemma when my husband retires and my daughter suggests sharing a home. While I adore my daughter and grandchildren, I am hesitant to uproot my life as my mortgage is paid. Expressing my concerns without hurting her feelings is challenging. How can I handle this delicate situation? — BAD IDEA IN NEW YORK
DEAR BAD IDEA: Your daughter has been fortunate to have your support. Determine if she and her partner are financially stable. Suggest that they consider renting, pooling their earnings for rent. Communicate your feelings honestly. It's okay to prioritize your comfort. Be gentle but assertive about your decision. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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