Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. Submit questions here.
Help! I Just Found Out My New Pet Is Stolen Property.
A recent gift of a cat from a sister takes a dark turn when the truth about the cat's ownership is revealed. The sister, tired of caring for the neglected animal, decides to rehome it under false pretenses. The recipient of the cat is torn between keeping the cat and confronting her sister's unethical behavior. What would you do in this situation?
Falling Back in Love: A Relationship on Thin Ice
A reader seeks advice on reigniting the spark in her relationship with a partner who exhibits troubling behavior. Despite feelings of love, the reader struggles with physical aversion, anxiety, and emotional distance. Is it possible to salvage a failing relationship, or is it time to let go?
Family Feud: Dealing with a Troubled Teen
A family grapples with accommodating a troubled niece who has failed to meet expectations in their household. As tensions rise, different family members are at odds over how to handle the situation. What steps should be taken to address the challenges that come with familial obligations?
The Untold Story: Secrets and Struggles in Partnerships
A partner grapples with the emotional burden of secrecy and isolation within a relationship. Despite attempts to maintain loyalty and privacy, one partner feels excluded from significant aspects of the other's life. How can a couple bridge the gap between secrecy and transparency?
A Mother's Dilemma: Choices and Consequences
A mother faces a complex decision when asked to take temporary custody of a long-lost sibling of her own children. Struggling with past grievances and familial tensions, she must navigate challenging circumstances while prioritizing the well-being of her family. What path should she choose in this delicate situation?