Debating the Exhaustion Away: Finding Common Ground with Your Spouse

In a twist of fate, a high school debate team brought together a couple who now find themselves at odds over constant arguing.
Changing Priorities, Changing Dynamics:
The writer recounts how heated debates used to fuel their relationship, but with time and the arrival of children, the desire for constant contention has waned.
Seeking Resolution:
In a plea for help, the writer expresses exhaustion over the relentless debating and the struggle to find common ground with their spouse.
Expert Advice:
Dear Abby suggests open communication with the husband about the change in feelings and the need to seek professional help if necessary.
Final Thoughts:
Finding a balance between healthy discussion and overwhelming debates is key to maintaining a harmonious relationship.