Dear Abby is a column written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, offering advice on various life situations. Below are some recent letters from readers seeking guidance
BOYFRIEND'S DEMANDING PROPOSAL
A woman writes in about her boyfriend who asked her to quit her job and care for his abusive mother with dementia as a condition for marriage. Sensing the potential disaster and stress this would cause, she refused. After putting his mother in a nursing home, the boyfriend seems resentful towards the woman for not complying with his wishes. Dear Abby advises her to move on, as his resentment is unlikely to diminish.
WIFE'S LACK OF RESPECT
Another reader expresses frustration over his wife's constant dismissal of his thoughts and feelings. Feeling emotionally abused, he considers taking a large sum of money offered by his mother on the condition of not disclosing it to his wife. Dear Abby suggests seeking legal counsel to declare independence and accepting the offer.
SENTIMENTAL PORTRAIT
Lastly, a woman contemplates disposing of a large portrait of herself in her wedding dress that has sentimental value. Concerned about burdening her children with the decision, she seeks advice. Dear Abby recommends keeping the portrait as a testament to the loving relationship she shared with her children.
In summary, Dear Abby provides insightful advice on navigating complex familial and relationship dynamics with empathy and practicality. For more advice or to submit your own questions, visit www.DearAbby.com or write to P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.